Please Go For It
In case no one told you today — your dreams are very possible.
Three years ago, I was in the backseat of the car. It was the middle of the summer, and we were driving through northern Michigan.
I was talking to my parents about my growing marketing agency, and I mentioned this desire bubbling in me — I wanted to take sharing content online seriously.
I had a hunch that this was my medium of expression — a true art form, but I was confused about whether it was too vain or showy, and how to share my voice authentically.
In that moment, my mom turned around in the passenger seat and said, “Then go for it!” This simple sentence gave me the permission I needed.
When she died about a year and a half later, I walked away from that loss with a clear conviction — we must create and try while we are alive.
Now every morning, I reference my list of Artist’s Way affirmations, and this one sits at the top:
It’s likely that when I say “go for it,” something that you may want to do comes to mind. But in the next second, fear comes rushing in. Worry about what other people might think, the concern about how your life would need to change, or the insecurity about your capabilities.
You might then say to yourself … “Well, one day…”
But that is not a real day.
Last fall, I shared a vulnerable video that went viral, reaching 8 million views and changing the trajectory of my life. Since then, I’ve received PR from dream brands, signed with management, secured brand deals (post on the how-to of this coming soon), been invited to spectacular events, and am working on a book.
I’ve been thinking about how badly I wish I could tell my mom all of this exciting stuff that’s been happening lately — but because she’s not here — I want to tell you —
If you want to go for something, please start today.
🛍️ Things I’ve Liked Lately
+ Wore this red plaid skirt and felt like the ideal grown-up version of my younger Catholic school self.
+ Having a moment with boat shoes. So glad they are back.
+ So many questions about this heart necklace. A weekly go-to for me! Also, recently found these under $15 beads.
+ Most flattering workout set. Leggings stay put while running!
+ Drinking this every morning! I do feel better.
+ I think I want a pair of these perfect flats or fisherman sandals for my birthday. I love everything Freda is up to!
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Thank you for this permission slip 🤍 I’ve been working towards my dreams for the last few years, but recently had a some slip ups out of my control. It’s really knocked my confidence and inspiration. I’m hoping they both return soon.